1. Exclusion Inclusion
2. Entitlement Opportunity to succeed or fail based on own steam
3. Rights Accountability, responsibility, ownership
4. Repression Empowerment
5. Secular Spirituality
6. Cynical Skeptical
7. Materialism Wealth
8. Pragmatism Idealism
9. Me We
10. Closed fist An open hand
11. Taking bigger share Creating a better world
12. Status Quo Growth
13. Laziness Doing the work
14. Taking Service
15. Sympathy Empathy
16. Falling into fear Lifting by faith
17. Control=insecurity Vulnerability=strength
18. Right & wrong Good & bad
19. Power by coercion Inspiring change
20. Masculine Balance
21. Anger Forgiveness & healing
22. What you're against What you are for
23. Unfulfilled Comfortable in one's own skin
24. Wanting credit Giving dignity
25. Disillusioned A vision for the future
This is the original list of Love Leadership Laws, as drafted "on the fly" during the 2008 annual conference of the Forum of Young Global Leaders in China. This later led, inspired by YGLs such as Shai Agassi and Zainab Salbi, to me publishing LOVE LEADERSHIP: The New Way to Lead in a Fear-Based World with my publisher, Jossey-Bass.