"Mentors like my dear friend Rod McGrew have taught me that when you really have the power, you don't need to use it. I would learn in time to talk without being offensive, to listen without being defensive, and to leave even my adversaries with their dignity. I would learn to love those who did not deserve love in return. Then and only then would I be totally free. ....It takes the power of love to banish fear."
John Hope Bryant, from LOVE LEADERSHIP: The New Way to Lead in a Fear-Based World